Two girls…. daughters….. sisters…… as I thought about writing a piece for mother’s day I realised that for me mother’s day isn’t all about me, it’s all about them. It’s chaotic, exhausting and all consuming at times but also such a blessing watching these two rascals grow and learn together. I’ve realised that I love these two little people more than i’ve loved anything in my life, mother;s day is a celebration of them more than me.
It seems Iike no time at all since we were bringing you home from hospital at one week old so it’s hard to believe that any day now you will be earning the title of ‘big sister’!
Every day now you giggle as you tell us that you’re Mummy’s girl…….. Daddy’s bird……… and Nanny’s angel. Daddy is still by far your favourite but it’s always mummy that you call in the middle of the night!! And when nanny’s in charge you tell her you’re going out for tea and cake! (that’s my girl – well taught!)
** Disclaimer – this is definitely not a ‘how to potty train your toddler post’ This is more of an opportunity to laugh at myself and allow you to laugh along with me! **
I should start by saying that Hannah has been using a potty since she was seven months old – she had constipation issues and we introduced the potty in the hope she could comfortably go on it and she did. She has been using it morning, evening and after nap time since then and often at other nappy changes so she was familiar with it and happy to use it. It certainly was a help when it came to actual potty training.
Lots of people ask about potty training and the dos and don’ts and what worked and what didn’t, these are such hard questions to answer as every child is so different and they train at different ages and over different time frames. But I thought I would share a few thoughts about what I learnt along the way, we really do learn so much from our children!
Recently it was Hannah’s second birthday. So while I still could I wanted to plan a sweet little tea party for her with a bit of a bunny rabbit theme as I’m all too aware that over the coming years she will choose her own theme and characters for her party and her cake!
I really enjoy planning for little family gatherings like this, note pad in hand, scribbled ideas and too much time spent on Pinterest is just my thing! As I planned everything in my head it soon developed into a vintage tea party with a touch of rustic and the colours pink and gold crept in as I decided on pretty tableware and decorations, so I thought I would share some photos of the set up and the lovely bits I used to pull it all together.
When did you get so tall and start looking so grown up?
Where have all those words and all that chatting come from?
It seems like only yesterday that you arrived into the world in such a hurry, and from that instant you’ve changed our lives in a way we could never have anticipated! The last two years have passed in the blink of an eye, we could never have imagined they would pass so quickly, we have learnt so much from you, and would do well to be as chilled out and carefree as you!
Last month we set off on our holidays as a family of three with a bump! This was our first family experience travelling on a plane so it was always going to be an exciting and nerve wrecking adventure!
We jetted off from Belfast City Airport to sunny Malaga, neither of us have ever been on a package holiday in Spain but we choose Benalmadena and felt a touristy location with a swimming pool, nearby beach and lots of bars and restaurants would be exactly what we’d need when taking away an almost two year old! Our flight was about two and a half hours with a transfer from the airport of approx. 30 minutes so we felt this would be more than long enough for our first holiday abroad with a little person!
I’ve been tagged on Instagram quite a few times over the last wee while to share 20 facts about me! Firstly apologies to all those who tagged me, I did not mean to appear rude by not sharing but things have just been a bit hectic!
I’m definitely a bit late to the game with this one but some of you may also have noticed that my poor blog has been severely neglected so I thought this would be a good post to get me back on the blogging band wagon again!
If you are a new reader I hope this gives you a little insight into my world, and for those of you who have been here a while maybe you will find out something new!
People have said to me in the past that we’re a really ‘outdoorsy’ family, and i’m like, no way! I’m the first to admit that I love nothing better than a beautiful coffee shop and the chance to enjoy some coffee and cake! Are we outdoorsy……? We both have mainly outdoor jobs, working shifts in all weathers and we’re both volunteer lifeboat crew! (okay maybe just a little!)
But anyone who knows us really well will know that we have a bit of a thing for lighthouses. Chris’s grandfather was a lightkeeper and from his close relationship with his grandad Chris has a real passion for lighthouses and his enthusiasm has carried us along with him, we got engaged at the top of a lighthouse in County Donegal and Hannah sure knows a lighthouse when she sees one!
The years definitely go faster as you get older, the last year has just sailed past in the blink of an eye! But I’m feeling ready to face this new year ahead with plans for finishing jobs around the house, clearing all the clutter and making more memories with these two!
So much has changed for us in the last couple of years and as we head into another new year I wanted to reflect on what an incredible year we’ve had so I thought I’d document some of our memories of 2016. We all have our ups and downs and things and people in our lives that try to bring us down but I choose not to dwell on the negativity but to focus on what’s been our best bits!
This post is more for me than anyone else, but maybe it’ll inspire you to look back and do something similar. I was hoping to choose a photo for each month but that became too difficult a task!
So here goes………
We started the year knowing I only had another two months of maternity leave left so I wanted to make the most of them, January can often be a come down after Christmas but this month seen my first birthday as a mummy, and yet another reminder of how very blessed we are to have our beautiful girl! Hannah’s first two teeth also arrived this month too, we thought they’d never appear!
My last full month of maternity leave had finally crept up on me but it was full of love and great moments and nothing was going to stop us from enjoying it. February seen lots of cake with two family birthdays and lots of pancakes too! We also enjoyed our Northern Ireland #instamums and #instababies meet up organised by the lovely Anna over at @blossomingbirds. I never would have dreamt of meeting so many lovely mummies through social media, thankful for their company through the small hours when we’ve been nursing restless babes!
I was so apprehensive about this month arriving and juggling fulltime shift work with childcare, Hannah started nursery this month, attending two afternoons a week and we are so thankful that she just loves it! We enjoyed our first Mother’s Day, how wonderful it is to be a mummy! It really is the simple things, hot chocolate and Hannah’s first go on the swing made for a perfect day. And not forgetting our first Easter as a family of three, enjoying every precious moment and milestone.
Another month of outings and antics! Five family birthdays this month and the arrival of our gorgeous niece Ellie-Rose! She still remains the competition but I dare say it won’t be long until they’re as thick as thieves and plotting against us all! A trip on the ferry boat with daddy was also a highlight this month and our first pair of shoes……. Little did we know that it would be September before she would finally decide to go it alone and our aching backs could recover!
Celebrating 11 months with our girl, growing strong willed and independent, a total joy to be around! Nanny retired this month too, or at least she thought she did, she is busier than ever with the little rascals in her life!
Wow! Hannah turns ONE! We’ve kept this little person alive for twelve months! We had a lovely little party with family and friends the weekend before her birthday, she is so loved and a perfect little treasure, we definitely couldn’t imagine life without her, what did we do with our time! We also enjoyed a little break away to Donegal and celebrated Father’s Day.
We celebrated Daddy’s promotion this month! We are so proud of him and everything he does for us. Shift work is immensely difficult to juggle at times but it gives us both a lot of time with our girl (not so much time with each other though!) Hannah sure is a Daddy’s girl and often chooses to be with him instead of her mummy!
A month of fun family times with days out, long walks, ice creams, fun on the swings and Hannah’s first fancy dress day at nursery! Thankful to have crammed plenty into this month, the summer months pass so quickly.
A week long break to our favourite spot in Donegal, lots of time spent on the beach, long walks, lazy breakfasts and lunches, play parks, cream buns and cosy evenings, everything a family holiday should be! We also enjoyed a family wedding and another meet up with our instafriends, this time courtesy of @melwiggins and @aly.harte. A fantastic photowalk through the streets of Belfast, talking in the sights and every opportunity for a photo!
I really do love the autumn and all the beautiful colours before the winter is upon us! It was so mild this month and we loved getting out in the fresh air, filling our days with long walks, enjoying the sea breezes and crunchy leaves. This month we hosted a coffee morning for Macmillan, celebrated Daddy’s birthday and Ellie -Rose’s Christening Day.
November is usually a cold wintery month of frosty mornings and dark evenings but we always look forward to celebrating our wedding anniversary. Three years already, how time has flown! We enjoyed an overnight stay in the Redcastle Hotel, County Donegal to celebrate, lots of family time and enjoying the swimming pool was just what we needed. We also tried our hand at wreath making, you can read about it here, it was a fun autumnal crafty session! Another mad month of precious moments amid the madness of work, snatching walks and alfresco picnics, just the three of us.
Almost the end of a fantastic year and the last few weeks have whizzed by. It’s been a busy month for the family and I took a little extra leave to try and enjoy some days together. Hannah is now 18 months and we loved the run up to Christmas and visiting Santa, she knows who he is but likes to keep him at arm’s length! Having her in our lives has really changed Christmas, it’s so much more exciting and we’re like big kids ourselves!
So that’s it!
What a busy year!
I’ve really enjoyed looking back over photographs and putting this together as a little snapshot of our year. I’m no expert photo taker but I love capturing these precious moments. My resolution for the new year is to keep snapping away and hopefully get a bit better, and maybe purchase a good camera!
Wishing you and yours a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR from all of us!